Welcome to the official web site for Worth The Wait Revolution, Inc. I am Lindsay Marsh MD, CEO and creative director of this exciting, new enterprise. I have designed trend-setting shirts, which challenge the current standard of our day, by emphasizing and celebrating sexual purity. These shirts are for those who accept the task of representing sexual purity with contemporary style and urban class. My book, The Best Sex of My Life: a guide to purity is an honest, face-to-face discussion about sex, close encounters, male-female challenges with sexual purity and making better choices to avoid sexual temptations. Both men and women have been empowered and equipped by participating in this sexual revolution!
Q: Who are you?
A: I am a 32-year-old anesthesiologist, author, entrepreneur, minister, and attractive, young woman, who has made a decision to keep my virginity until marriage. Have you ever experienced a close call, or a moment when things simply went a little too far? I have had close encounters, as well as, challenging times of compromise, but through and by God’s grace and outstanding instruction from my Pastors, I have found great satisfaction and fulfillment in pursuing a life of purity. I write this, not to boast, but to share my heart as a young woman whom God has allowed to represent this delicate, yet powerful and provocative message of sexual purity.
Q: What is the passion that drives you to continue your ministry to help others?
A: I am driven by purpose. Worth The Wait Revolution, Inc, our sexual purity outreach has become such an exciting movement. I am excited to be a part of what God longs to do in this generation to revolutionize a remnant of people that will stand for righteousness in the midst of uncontrolled lust, homosexuality, teen pregnancy, unplanned pregnancy, the HIV epidemic, the STD rampage, condom dispersion, pornography and sexploitation. God is raising up a generation of people that are ‘supermodels for the kingdom of God’, (as I say) and choose to be the standard and not a statistic.
Q: Isn’t it rare to find someone your age to be a virgin? What about the male vs. female virgin ratio?
A: Well, unfortunately, it can be rare. I am 32…so, you can probably count on one hand the virgins that you know over 30 years old. Many more people are living sexually pure lives and keeping their virginity until marriage, but until the Worth The Wait Revolution gave them a voice to express their obedience and faithfulness to the Lord…..they have been silent. Silent, lonely and at times, very frustrated with God. I think Worth The Wait Revolution, Inc. has given us a strong, powerful, uncompromising voice for sexual purity. Consequently, more virgins and sexually-pure teens and adults are coming out of the closet. The stigma and embarrassment has been erased. I find that more female virgins exist because of the tremendous pressure placed upon men in this culture to perform sexually, acquire multiple women and be perceived as a ‘player’. Therefore, young men tend to compromise a bit easier because the same standard of purity that is generally embraced for women of most cultures is widely rejected for most men of the same cultures. The double standard is a real obstacle, and then further pressure is placed on a young man to prove that he is not homosexual/gay. It is highly important for young men and woman to root their self-esteem in the Word of God, instead of these sexual charged images and stereotypes projected by our media. I make it a point to celebrate sexual purity in men, as well as women! There are no double standards with God!
Q: Besides sexual purity, what are some other topics you teach on?
A: Sexual purity is my central theme, but several other topics are derived from the instructions I give people, when empowering them with the information on ‘how to’ stay pure. Topics like self-esteem, vision-building, guarding your heart (media influences), and honoring parents/mentors/pastors are issues I deal with as well. I speak from the platform of presenting sexual purity as a ‘choice’. It is God’s best choice for our lives, far above a condom, above masturbation, above birth control, above dry humping and the like.
Q: What are some tips that people can use to stay out of the “hot spot”?
A: I give a lesson entitled, “10 Choices To Keep You Out of Trouble”. It summarizes my top 10 choices that equip people to stay far from the ‘hot spot’. Tip 1: Guard You Heart! When will we ever be honest with ourselves about the music we listen to, the movies we watch, the videos, pornography, internet images, media influences that we ingest from this booty-licious culture? I am pretty selective, not anal about my listening and viewing pleasure. I am not super-saved….but I ‘keep it real’ about knowing my limits, and what ‘provokes my flesh’. I am honest with myself about the power of music and the power of images, whether pornographic or in a video.
Q: Can you be restored after losing your virginity?
A: As we know, virginity is not something that you can get back, physically. However, spiritually, the blood of Jesus can cleanse you of all unrighteousness, fully restore you and rebuild that which was lost, stolen or taken (for those who have been sexually violated). After being cleansed and forgiven, 2 Corinthians 5:17 is clear, “If any man be in Christ, He is new creature, all old things have passed away, behold all things have become new.” Glory to God! So, I am inspired to remind people that restoration is possible for each and every one of us. Virginity is a gift that can be restored in Christ Jesus. Worth The Wait Revolution is a safe place for anyone desiring to live a sexually pure life, regardless of their past/present challenges.
